"there is a way of winning more by love,
and urging of the modesty, than fear:
force works on servile natures, not the free
he that's compell'd to goodness, may be good
but 'tis but for that fit, where others drawn
by softness and example, get a habit.
then, if they stray, but warn them and the same
they should for virtue have done they'll do for shame"
every man in his humor - ben jonson